Polyamory. Just hearing the word can spark a mix of curiosity, confusion, and sometimes, even a little bit of judgment. It’s a concept that’s gaining more visibility these days, popping up in TV shows, documentaries, and even everyday conversations, but it’s still widely misunderstood. So, let’s pull up a chair, grab a cup of coffee,…
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Ethical Non Monogamy
Let’s talk about relationships for a moment. For most of us, when we picture a “relationship,” our minds automatically conjure up an image of two people, exclusively committed to each other, both romantically and sexually. This is called monogamy, and it’s the dominant relationship structure in many cultures around the world. It’s what we see…
Dating a Single Mother
Dating in the modern world is already a nuanced dance, full of unspoken rules, mixed signals, and the occasional ghosting. But what happens when you introduce an entirely new layer of complexity? What happens when the person you’re interested in, the one who sparks your interest and makes you smile, happens to be a single…
Self Reflection
When someone is considering whether or not to start dating, or to date a specific person, their questions often fall into two main categories: self-reflection and assessment of the potential partner/relationship. These are crucial steps before diving into the dating world, as they help ensure a healthier and more fulfilling experience. Self-Reflection: Am I Ready?…
Defining Your Relationship Goals
Embarking on the journey of dating, whether you’re a seasoned explorer or taking your first steps, is a deeply personal and often transformative experience. Yet, many find themselves adrift in a sea of fleeting connections and unfulfilled expectations. The key to navigating this landscape with purpose and finding a truly meaningful partnership lies not in…
Beyond “Just Dating”: When Do You Become Exclusive?
There comes a point in dating someone new, after a few weeks or perhaps a couple of months, where you start to feel a shift. The initial excitement of getting to know someone is still there, but it’s evolving into something deeper. You’re spending more time together, your conversations are more intimate, and you’re thinking…
Stuck in the Friend Zone: Why It Happens and How to Break Free
You’ve been on several dates with her. You’ve gone to nice restaurants, perhaps seen a movie, shared some laughs, and spent quality time together. You feel a growing connection, a spark of romantic interest. But then, you notice it. The subtle cues, the way she talks about other people, the distinct lack of physical affection,…
When a Date Gets Too Touchy: Your Guide to Setting Boundaries
There you are, on a first date, perhaps enjoying a delightful conversation, sharing laughs, and feeling a glimmer of connection. Everything seems to be going well, and then, slowly or suddenly, you realize the vibe is shifting. He’s trying to get physical, and you’re not comfortable with it. It’s an awkward, sometimes frightening, and unfortunately,…
Dating in the Dark: Your Guide to Navigating Blind Dates
So, your friend (or a well-meaning family member) just dropped the bombshell: “I’ve got someone I think you’d love to meet. How about a blind date?” Cue the mix of excitement, dread, and a flurry of questions. A blind date, for the uninitiated, is exactly what it sounds like – a date with someone you’ve…
Nailing Your First Date: A Deep Dive into Preparation and Confidence
There’s something uniquely exhilarating and simultaneously terrifying about a first date. It’s a blend of anticipation, nerves, and a dash of genuine curiosity. You’re stepping into the unknown, hoping for a spark, and aiming to make a good impression. But how do you navigate this exciting, often awkward, yet potentially rewarding experience? Preparing for your…